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How Gardening Transformed My Life – Urban Gardening Mom

How Gardening Transformed My Life – Urban Gardening Mom

Posted on August 16, 2025 By Rehan No Comments on How Gardening Transformed My Life – Urban Gardening Mom

When I started this hobby more than a year ago, I really thought I could save some money by growing my own vegetables. In my overexcitement to try all the new gardening ideas that I learned about, I ended up buying all the tools, seeds, fertilizers, pots, etc., some of which I hardly got to use. As I got more hooked into it, the more I had to spend on my gardening tools and materials — not to mention the amount of time I devoted to gardening every week.

Later on, I realized that the benefits of gardening for me go far beyond the investments of time and money that I had put into it over the past year. Here are the top 5 benefits of gardening which I found truly rewarding:

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🌼 1. Stress Relief  
I found gardening a really great way to relieve stress. By nature, I am an introvert, and as such, gardening is an excellent opportunity for me to spend more time alone with my plants and get my mind off all the things that cause me to worry. Like for instance, just seeing the flowers finally bloom or the vegetables getting ready for harvest already gives me such a wonderful feeling of accomplishment.

🌟 Lesson: Nature calms the mind and nurtures the soul.

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☀️ 2. Exercise, Fresh Air & Sunshine  
I look forward to my weekends at home when I get to wake up early in the morning to start my gardening routine. I love to feel that cold fresh air brush my face early in the morning, just before dawn breaks. The sound of birds is an added bonus. I get to do a little bit of exercise as well — moving pots here and there, transplanting the seedlings into bigger pots, loosening the soil to apply fertilizer, or just inspecting the plants for any signs of trouble.

🌟 Lesson: Movement with purpose is the best kind of workout.

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🧘♀️ 3. Increased Tolerance & Patience  
Gardening requires a lot of patience, and since I started gardening, I developed a higher level of patience and tolerance — especially with my family and the household staff. Gardening teaches you to be patient because nature cannot be rushed. Nature also has its way of healing itself, so some mistakes that I made can be cured over time. I learned to tolerate raw imperfections in nature, which made me appreciate its overall beauty.

🌟 Lesson: Growth takes time — in plants and in people.

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 🚗 4. Managing Stress from Daily Life  
The biggest plus for me is that I could now resist the urge of cursing at the woeful traffic situation in Metro Manila, where anyone can spend a minimum of 2 hours every day going to work in the morning. The traffic situation in the Philippines is really terrible, and there’s no better way to handle it but simply to manage how we react to such stress which affects our daily interactions.

🌟 Lesson: We can’t control the chaos, but we can control our response.

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🥗 5. Nutrition from Produce  
My vegetables and herbs are completely organic. I get to pick and harvest them at least twice a week. This gives me enough supply of these vegetables for the family’s consumption, with a little extra to share with neighbors in the community. Currently, I have eggplants, okra, pechay (bokchoy), mustard leaves, green onion, malabar spinach, pepper, and various kinds of herbs.

🌟 Lesson: What we grow with care nourishes us in return.

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👨👩👧👦 Bonus: Bonding with Family & Community

A few years ago, I conducted an urban gardening workshop in my community. Through this seminar, I was able to inspire my neighbors to start urban gardening as well. Some of them are now starting to harvest their own vegetables and herbs in their own little backyard.

Occasionally, I would see some neighbors visit my garden, perhaps out of curiosity and fascination. There’s an elderly couple who’d regularly visit the garden as part of their daily routine, checking to see what’s new. I have shared a few of my produce and seedlings with some neighbors, hoping to encourage them to start their own container garden.

🌟 Lesson: Gardening grows more than plants — it grows relationships.

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☕ Why I’ll Always Love Gardening
All told, the personal satisfaction and stress relief that I experienced these past several months are the priceless rewards that I derived from all my efforts. Like any passionate gardener, you just can’t help but try out more stuff, experiment on new things and bigger ideas — even if we would fail in some.

In gardening, we can only learn by making tons of mistakes along the way. But nature is a kind and forgiving teacher. She always gives you a chance to recover and correct whatever misstep you may have made in the past. This is precisely why I love gardening so much.

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Want to share your own gardening journey? Tag me @UrbanGardeningMom — I’d love to hear how nature has transformed your life too 🌿💚

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